Tell her your expectations for this relationship

Every man and woman ever dated have said words like this: Only if he/she had told me he/she is only into something casual. Sometimes, on the contrary: I don’t know he/she would like me so much. I thought we were just fooling around. What do you plan to do with my daughter? That is the question every father would ask. There are reasons why you should state clearly what your expectations are before dating or hooking up with friend finder who you can meet on hookup apps.

All relationships, even a one night hookup contain one question, that is finding out each other’s expectations are. This period often lasts for minutes to months or even years. Of course, we also often try to convey our expectations to others, while we often fail. For example, immediately leave after a one night hookup. Never text on your initiative. Never like her photos on social media. Never bring up your exes.

I had a close friend whom never kissed on the lips. I thought this is a typical tinder hookup for me. I thought obviously we were just hooking up, since we didn’t even kiss. Luckily, after we hooked up for once, he texted me and let me know that we are still platonic friends, even though we hooked up for once. We had a vague and mature talk about it and we passed that conversation forever, because we both are clear with each other’s expectations.

If I understand it correctly, guys are afraid of girls being mad at them. If you see a guy breaking up with a girl, as an audience, I would often notice that they are trying to make the girl say the sentence: I am not mad at you. So, when they know there might be anger, disappointment and fear occur, why they don’t state their expectations at the first time?

Being exactly the opposite of that of males’, females are not trying to force them make long-term commitment. As a matter of fact, now we no longer rely on you financially. That is to say, there is lower chance for females to trick makes into a marriage. When both parties want to be involved in a long-term relationship, the payback of this relationship will be much bigger. Many of my male friends are worried that if they turn a girl down or tell her that they don’t want serious relationship, they would make them sad. Telling one that she is not that special can be hurting. However, not telling them and letting them to find out themselves after a long time, it can be even more damaging. You can do it in a more elegant way. Telling her that she is special, but it is you who are not ready for a relationship and that you are afraid you are going to hurt her if you go to a relationship in such condition. There are many ways to tell her. Not telling is definitely not one of the right ways.